Tuesday, September 27, 2005
hullo duck.its not that i don't want to put in effort into a relationship. of any nature. its just that i think that the ones that work best for me are the ones that are, kinda, low maintenance. i've known jing for like, 7 years. we weren't all that close in secondary school on a personal basis but we hung out in a group of other noisy girls. we got close just before she left for scotland. and i thought that the friendship will just come to a stanstill since i am bad at correspondence. but everytime she comes back, it feels like old times. really. she understands that i just don't keep in touch. she has subtly told me that if i tried, i probably could get a few e-mails across to her. but that is if i tried. but she still is ok with it anyway. she never takes it the wrong way and has never, unlike some others, questioned how much of a true friend i am. i like that, for a lack of a better word, consistency we have as pple. when she gets back, it feels as if she never left and at the same time, it feels as if i am talking to a brand new person. which is not a bad thing. its like the friendship is not stale, but not fresh either. its both. like somewhat old bread.which i like alot. she always seems to have time to be with me (and mind u, she does have alot of a social life) and at the same time, doesn't get all petty when i cancel on her. (which hardly happens, right jing?)and thru her, i've met such cool pple like amelia and karin and through them even more pple. and hanging out with them has provided me with an incredibly fresh perspective of things. which i will talk about some other time. but back to jing. before this sounds like another friendster testimonial (which i am highly against) i suppose i just want to say it here that i really appreciate the type of friend and person that she is. i find it hard to say things like that to her in person. so, yu jing, i will never say this to u but i love u!
posted R @
5:32 pm
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hullo duck.
ok i for as long as i can remember, i have been told that i talk alot.
i do. a phenomenal amount. i, of all pple, am cognizant of that. fully.
but i have come to realise that, some pple just can't get over it.
do i really need to be told everyday, every.single.day., that i talk alot.
"yea rima, u can never shut up. no, i don't want u to change. ur talking alot is kinda like watching tv. free entertaintment. no, i am fine with it. but really, u DO have alot to say."
i mean seriously, come up with something new to say can? its getting excruciatingly rehearsed and dreadfully boring.
i am not annoyed. i just thought i should say smth about it. and because i cannot say it in person without coming across sounding a tad miffed and somewhat bitchy, i say it here.
that's what blogs are for?
posted R @
5:24 pm
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hullo duck.
nope. still alive.
yes. still remember my password.
hehe.
school's started and, as evidenced by the lack of posts, is keeping me really really busy.
in more ways than one.
:)
posted R @
5:21 pm
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